Let me see you sweat


Reader, this gets a little personal.

Over the winter, I started playing pickleball. I love it! I'm having so much fun.

Summer is now officially here with a daily heat index topping 100 this past week.

In past years, I have avoided being outside in such dreadful heat.

This year, I'm taking two or more showers a day to cool off and wash away the sweat.

Yes, I'm a prolific sweater. One of those people who always looks like they just ran a marathon after any exertion in the sun.

I could choose to join a club and play in the air conditioning.

Instead, I've chosen to get comfortable with being uncomfortable and looking like a sweaty mess.

And the most beautiful thing is that it has allowed me to embrace other sweaty outdoor activities that I would have avoided in the past because it was "too hot."

I'm saying yes to more fun with friends and family, and letting the sweat roll down my back.

Reader, do you ever question whether you are choosing comfort and missing out?

I'm having such a fun summer filled with laughter and healthy activity.

I'm also thinking more creatively about my business.

Reader, it turns out that when you give yourself permission in one area of your life to push outside of your comfort zone, it gets easier to do it in other areas too.

So this week, I challenge you to ask yourself what the "I can't, it's too hot" self-limiting story is that you are telling yourself.

What might happen if you were to say yes instead?

Here's the thing.

You can say yes and give it a try. If it isn't right for you, you can stop.

Or it could open up new relationships and opportunities that bring more joy and fulfillment.

Reader, are you ready to sweat?

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Catch Up on 'the story i'm telling myself' podcast

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Episode 1 with Karen Laos: Are You Enough? Finding your inner power

Episode 2 with Gail Kraft: Is Your Fear of Abandonment Running the Show?

Episode 3 with Sandra Adeyeye Bello: Am I Worth It? A question too many are afraid to answer

Episode 4 with Leslie Minchin: Are You Busy or Just Avoiding Your Life?

Episode 5 with Srivatsan Aravamudan: Broken, Dirty, Not Enough? The journey to self-acceptance

Episode 6 with Vivian Blade: How Do I Say "I Lost My Job?"

Episode 7 with Angie Redmon: Who Am I Letting Down? The hidden cost

Episode 8 with Debbie Potts: I Refuse to Settle: Rewriting my story after a life-changing diagnosis

Episode 9 with Tandra Price: Can I Do That? Unleashing your inner power

Episode 10 with Ronda Berns: Am I the Prey? Overcoming fear and mastering sales

Episode 11 with Carmen Alvarez: Can Joy and Grief Really Co-exist?

Episode 12 with Melissa Robinson Hussain: Who Do You Want to Be? Coaching Yourself to Radical Transformation

The Story I’m Telling Myself is for anyone who wants to overcome the limitations of self-doubt and live a life of purpose and fulfillment.

Through candid conversations, you'll discover:

  • The hidden costs of listening to your inner critic: How fear and doubt sabotage your confidence, happiness, and success.
  • Transformational strategies for silencing the negative voice: Learn how to overcome self-doubt, embrace vulnerability, and step into your true potential.
  • The power of a mindset shift: Discover how changing your internal dialogue can lead to extraordinary results.

Real-life stories of courage and resilience: Gain inspiration from everyday people who overcame their negative self-talk to live a life of purpose and fulfillment.

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Rita Ernst, Positivity Influencer

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